

โ I disagree with the popular notion that...Some ideas are heard so often that they begin to seem true.But I disagree. As a sexologist. As a human being. As a live interviewer who has heard hundreds of stories.Here's what I disagree with:๐ฃ That talking about desire is shameful.๐ That sex in a long relationship inevitably gets boring.๐งฑ That men don't have sexual vulnerability.๐ That sexuality ends after 40.๐ That โnice girlsโ don't talk about sex.๐ธ That the body has to be โperfectโ to be desirable.๐ง That being emotional is a weakness.๐ค That intimacy is only about sex.๐ That a sexologist is only โabout technique in bed.โ๐ฎ That if your partner doesn't guess your desires, he's bad.๐งณ That problems in sex are embarrassing to discuss.๐ If any of these resonated, write them down.Which thought would you also disagree with?Or vice versa - which of these things do you still have a hard time letting go of?Let's talk about it honestly.