🕒 "One day in the life of a sexologist: myths vs reality"Whe..
Added 2025-07-08 08:15:58 +0000 UTC🕒 "One day in the life of a sexologist: myths vs reality"When I tell people that I am a sexologist, most often I see one of two reactions:Eyes are expanding: "Wow, this is probably your day!"Crooked grin: “So you ... do this all day, right? 😉 "Well. Let's dispel myths.Myth No. 1: The sexologist talks all day about poses, orgasm and BDSM📌 Reality:80% of the time is talking about anxiety, fear of intimacy, unrealized expectations, self -esteem and ... guilt.A little like psychotherapy, but with an emphasis on the body, feelings and intimacy.And the poses ... well, sometimes there are, but this is not the session of the session 😅Myth No. 2: My patients are always “sexually liberated” people in latex📌 Reality:Most often, these are good, tired people in a sweatshirt and jeans who just want them to manage their proximity.Men come with anxiety because of failures, women-with resentment and misunderstanding, couples-in the hope of feeling each other again.Yes, sometimes there are unexpected cases, but rather these are jokes for a narrow circle of colleagues 😄Myth No. 3: A sexologist lives like a hero from an erotic film📌 Reality:Morning: oatmeal, coffee, thoughts like "so, do not forget to print a training manual."Day: 5 consultations, a break - a snack of banana in the corridor.Evening: working notes, messages from customers with the phrase "Sorry, but you can question ...".Night: I dream not about sex, but about blanket and silence. 🤷♂️Myth No. 4: Sexologists know everything and are never mistaken in relationships📌 Reality:We are also people. Complex, feeling, sometimes tired and ... imperfect.But we have one difference: we can reflect and admit that we need to work in a relationship.You need to understand, listen, talk.And yes, I was also once angry and was silent. Now - I try differently.👉 If my work looked, as some people think, I would already write the book “50 Shades of Reception”.In the meantime, I just try to be useful, to speak honestly and without a taboo.Because sexuality is not only about “how”, but also about “why” and “with whom”.👀 I wonder what you would ask the sexologist if there were no constraint?Write in the comments anonymously or not - I will answer honestly.And yes, no question is “stupid”. There is only one that you never set.
